“Enjoy this moment; it’s your big day! A surprise to us all; we thought you were gay,” he said as the crowd erupted with laughter. “And Eliza, for you, please touch his hair. Cause look at his dad; ...

But that isn't the case here, as the Redditor said people are accusing them of being selfish for wanting to shut down the speech. They said the ex, "Katy," had dated the groom for years ...

"but it became an issue when she asked that I let her give a speech at the wedding since she knows him well." Katy explained that she just wanted to tell a "few funny" stories about the groom.